Ok Ladies, here is Part Two!
Signal #4 When You Look Away When Hugging or Embracing a Man
If you look around the room, at the door or even at another guy when you say hello to a man, it tells him that you’re not that into him, says James. “You may even be on the lookout for someone else,” she adds.
HGB: this is a little tricky because sometimes, I would be involved in another conversation, but that does not mean I’m not interested. If I wasn’t interested, I wouldn’t let you touch me, but if we are friends and I’m not interested it would not be a very long embrace. That’s sending mixed messages. So I’ll save us both the trouble and just shake my hand lol
Signal #5
“Making subtle tweaks to mirror his movements shows him that you two are on the same page,” says James. Mirroring his movements may sound awkward or too obvious, but something as subtle as holding your drink at the same height as his is all it takes.
HGB: If you purposely mirror his actions, you may scare him off. Only kids like to play shadow or copy cat…reminds me of my 2yr old niece who says “Auntie, I’m following yooouuu” and she literally mimicks everything that I do. For a two year-old it is cute, but not for an adult. Be careful with this one, unless it just happens naturally like you saying/thinking the same thing, then ok, but other that no!
Signal #6
“If you smile subtly—without showing your teeth—while your eyes are slightly narrowed, you’re telling a guy that you want to get to know him better,” James says. This signal is best used when you first meet someone.
HGB: I can just see someone just taking this information and doing the extreme. Be careful with this smile, do you guys remember the episode of Full House when DJ told Stephanie to do the little coy/half smile and she ended up looking really creepy lol… *classic episode* so be careful!
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