Elephants = problems are issues that are not being addressed

When Pastor Bernard spoke about ‘elephants in the room” first on Friday at the young adult meeting and then again on Sunday at the regular service I began to think deeply about issues in my life that I have not addressed. As I sit and type this post and think about what’s going on in my life I realized that now is the time I need to address my elephants.

The only way to fix a problem or solve an issue is to first acknowledge the problem. Once you realize what is causing you hurt, pain, guilt, confusion, anxiety, fear and all of the other emotions you can seek the proper channels to resolving the issues and moving on with your life. Don’t let your elephants hold you captive from pursuing a goal or living the best life that you can possibly live.

Ignoring the issue is not going to make it go away. Once you deal with the issue the outcome may not be what you expected or what you hoped for, but remember everything happens for a reason. So instead of being afraid of what could happen if you address the issue, realize what you are putting yourself and possibly others through by not even attempting to solve it.

“The challenge of leaderships is to be strong, but not rude; be kind, but not weak; be bold, but not bully; be thoughtful, but not lazy; be humble, but not timid; be proud, but not arrogant; have humor, but without folly.” -Jim Rohn

I don’t have any catchy quotes for you today, sorry. I just wanted to tell you about the newest changes to Her Goody Bag. I know you may have noticed the lack of posting over the past three weeks. Well that’s because I was in the process of redesigning the blog. Many people think that being a blogger you just sit behind the computer, go to fancy events, and get free stuff. That is hardly the case.

I worked closely with Artiatesia Deal for the new design. She’s done previous work for me and I must say I was blown away when I saw the final product this go round.

The new site is much more user friendly. With the main and sub navigation bars you can find your favorite sections and features of the blog easily. I wanted something that was definitely more functional for you all- to get the most out of all the posts ALWAYS CLICK READ MORE :)

The Main Naviagtion Bar Breakdown:

  • Home- self-explanatory
  • About- About Janique-me :) Disclaimer, Privacy Policy
  • Services- Styling Services Available
  • Contact- Contact us with all questions, comments, and concerns

The Sub Navigation Bar Breakdown:

  • Fashion: All things fashion including Luxe List, What to Wear, For Curvy Girls, and Fashion Week Updates
  • Beauty Bubble: Skincare, Hair Chronicles, Makeup, Perfume
  • Style Files: Celebrity Looks and coming soon Street Style
  • What I Wore: My outfit posts
  • Men’s Style: All things related to Men’s Fashion (Thanks Rob)
  • HGB News: All things non fashion related- Motivation Monday, Munchies, Exclusives, etc.
  • Collaborate: Ways to work with Her Goody Bag: sponsors, advertisers, giveaways
  • Blogroll: Some of my favorite blogs
  • Networks: All of my affiliate networks and sites

I hope you love the new site as much as I do! Until next time…

“Our life always expresses the result of our dominant thoughts.” -Soren Kierkegaard

What is dominating your thoughts?

“Work joyfully and peacefully, knowing that right thoughts and right efforts will inevitably bring about right results.
-James Lane Allen