What better way to show your fun and flirty side then with an LBD (little bright dress). Yes traditionally LBD stands for Little Black Dress, but with spring here and summer around the corner bring out your brightest blues, richest reds, bursting yellows, and vibrant oranges! The LBD can be dressed up or down and be worn for almost any occasion. Here are a few options from ASOS.

Asos Jewelled Rope Bodycon Dress $24

Asos Pleat Detail V-Neck Jersey Dress $21

Asos Hawaiian Print Cocktail Bandeau Dress $31

Asos Gathered Shoulder Soft Drape Dress $45

Asos Bow Bandeau Zip Back Dress $27

Asos Shoulder Pad Jersey Dress $43

I am pretty sure that most of us, if not all, have a signature look. Whether it is a certain style of clothing (for me it would be skinny jeans), our favorite shoe that we know goes with EVERYTHING, a pair of leggings, a tunic, or even a go-to makeup look, we have something that never fails us. My only problem with “signature looks” is that they can be very limiting and it is too safe. I know am always playing it “safe” but it is now time to break out of the usual. Whenever you go out people shouldn’t automatically know how your hair is going to be styled or what type of outfit you put together. Fashion is so flexible we don’t always have to play it safe, we can try something different and outrageous!  Unlike Megan Good who is pictured above it seems like whenever she hits the streets of NYC or Hollywood she has the same exact look. She is always in something black whether it is the entire outfit, just a pair of leggings, or boots and a motorcycle jacket and her infamous red lipstick. Red lipstick is not something that should be worn everyday! She looks a bit used and a lot older.

It is nice when you see a celebrity fresh faced with a neutral look. It is cool when they go for the edgy look or even the preppy look. My point is it is ok to have a signature look, but some looks are not appropriate for every occasion. So add some spice to your style and switch up your looks. Fashion is supposed to be fun so have fun and explore A FEW different looks and trends and then that signature look will be appreciated a lot more.

Spring time is almost here! Thank God, this 20 degree weather and these blizzards are not cutting it. We only have a few more weeks of winter so, in preparation for this transition into spring, I have compiled a list of winter-spring transitional must haves. The early part of a new season is very tricky and people are confused on how to dress for the weather. We go shopping attempting to expand our spring wardrobe, but we are faced with the winter items that are on sale, but it is too warm to wear the chunky sweater and the tanks and shorts are out but it is to chilly to start shedding the clothes. The key is to layer, layer, layer. So, check out the top 5 pieces you will need to make a smooth transition.

 1. Boyfriend Blazer- The boyfriend blazer is now a staple piece in any woman’s wardrobe. The menswear cut with a touch of femininity is the best combination. This blazer can be layered over a cami for the evening, a graphic print t-shirt for the day. It is the perfect layering piece for chilly nights.

Fashion Union Boyfriend Blazer $43

Casual Boyfriend Blazer $30 Forever 21

2. Trench Coat- The trench is ESSENTIAL to any woman’s wardrobe. This is the perfect transitional outerwear piece because its versatility. It can be worn during the day time or evening, to work when paired with your favorite dress or pencil skirt, or on weekends paired with your favorite jeans. It is very light for the spring, but heavy enough to keep you warm. Go for bold colors or even pastels. You can never go wrong with the traditional khaki.

Old Navy Women’s Trench Coat $50

3. Cardigan- Whether cropped or oversized the cardigan can dress up or dress down any look. Perfect for layering over camisoles, ruffled blouses, sleeveless blouses, and even t-shirts. To really spice up your spring look, choose cardigans in funky patterns, jewel tones, or animal print.

Captains Cardigan Forever 21 $28

ASOS Oversized Cardigan $48

ASOS Marled Boyfriend Cardigan $43

4. Scarves- A scarf is the perfect accessory to add flavor to your look. Choose scarves with vibrant colors in silks or chiffons. They should be light weight, so pack away your winter scarves. Choose scarves in varying lengths for more looks.

Lucky Brand Pixie Paisley Scarf $43

ASOS Large Floral Snood $31

ASOS Pastel Look Silk Scarf Square $21

5. Tights/leggings- Some people are sick and tired of tights and leggings, but they are not going anywhere. With the innovative patterns and designs, they can completely change the dynamics of the look. Pair with your favorite tunic, skirts, dresses, boyfriend shirts, and even shorts and rompers. They will keep your legs warm on those chilly days you are just not in the mood to wear slacks or jeans. Don’t be afraid to experiment with color and prints.

Blade Spot Leggings $15 Oasis

ASOS Big Leopard Print Tights $14

ASOS Sheer Tights with Black Snake $14

All of the items posted above are $50 or less making this transition easy on the wallet. So I hope this list helps you make a smooth transition as we move forward into spring. Until next time…

SMUDGEES  are probably one of the best things that I have in my cosmetic bag. They are small cotton swabs (like a Q-tip) that are pre-moistened with eye  makeup remover. They are the first product to enter the market to solve the problems with eye makeup that many of us have. In the  morning my makeup is perfect. The liner is neatly applied, shadow is in place, but sometimes, by mid-day, I have little smudges underneath my eye and water alone cannot correct the problems.

SMUDGEES are individually wrapped and can fit in your makeup bag, pocket, or your purse alone. The makeup remover is alcohol and oil free so you do not need to rinse and it dries instantly. I found out about this product at Shecky’s Girl’s Night Out in October and I absolutely love it! Ladies, please purchase this product. It is great for quick touch-ups before meetings, dinner with friends, happy hour, or a date. These will help you always look your best!

I am referring to RED HOT BLAZERS! I was so inspired by Amerie’s recent photo shoot with complex magazine that I went looking for some red blazers/jackets:

Here is what I found

Ralph Lauren Wool Cabled Military Jacket $238 www.ralphlauren.com

Free People “Boy Friend Jacket” $168 www.freepeople.com

Marc by Marc Jacobs “Knit Jacket” $168 www.shopbop.com

The red blazer  is definitely a statement piece and will turn many heads. If worn correctly. Don’t over accessorize. Let the jacket be the focus point. Pair with black or dark denim skinny jeans (even distressed) Killer pumps…black and white snakeskin is an option, an all black or grey bootie or over the knee boot. White tee or tank and layer on the chains.

I was on Essence.com yesterday and saw this pic and immediatly fell in love with the fur vest! I love how it is paired with fuschia dress and boots. The vest gives the look a little bit of an edge. I was in Target the other day and saw some decent fur vests. You have to be careful with the color of the fur and the texture/feel of the fur also. You don’t want to stand near someone and if they brush up against you, they start to itch. You want to be careful with the color and length also because if it is the wrong color or length you will be walking around looking like an endangered species.

Here are a few vests that I like…they are all faux fur so no need to call PETA

Juicy Couture Faux Coyote Fur Vest $98 at Nordstrom

Arden B. $78

Michael Kors Faux Coyote Fur Vest

Pair the vests with basics like a white t-shirt, black t-shirt, turtleneck, or crewneck.

Wear with a black leather mini and some killer booties or studded heels

You can also keep it simple and pair the vest and tee with a pair of skinnys, killer bag and heels (booties or  a pump)

What happens when you kiss someone?

According to Dr. Oz touching a person you love sets off powerful reactions in the body. One study by Swiss researchers found that young women who got brief shoulder rubs from their partners before a stressful event had lower heart rates and levels of stress hormones than women who didn’t get massages. Touching also triggers the releas of oxycotin, a hormone that bosts feelings of closeness and canreduce the perceptio of pain. All of this happens whether you kiss, cuddle, hold hands, or have sex. I say do them all more often, How’s that for a doctor’s order?

Well you heard the doctor…go out and be loved and touched…just make sure you are doing all of the kissing, cuddling, and touching with YOUR spouse…and not someone else’s or a random weirdo.

Fashion Mogul, Tyra Banks was spotted in NYC recently for a photo shoot. I love the curly dark hair on Tyra, and she is rocking some bad boots, a fly trench and a bangin dress. She is dressed to kill for the fall. Ladies, take note!

Trends Spotted: Chocolate Brown, Thigh High Boots, Trench, Wool Coat and Beret

DO check out the new feminine-shape dresses and skirts in black leather, like this swingy style.

DON’T fall back on the cliched versions of black leather that make you look as if you’re ready to ride off on a Harley.

DO get in on all the asymmetric one-shoulder dresses and tops for a new kind of sexy that looks elegant and never trashy.

DON’T wear any one-shoulder pieces without having the right strapless bra.

DO invest in a fabulous tailored one that can help you walk into a job interview with confidence, and then be taken apart for work, dinner or the weekend. Get inspired by Salma! And about that interview

DON’T ignore your accessories—one chic piece will help you stand out from the crowd.

DO have fun with a pop of neon. It’s a great way to add punch to autumn neutrals. Think a sleek dress like Blake Lively’s.

DON’T forget to soften neons with those neutrals—a pair of nude pumps, a gray sweater—or bare skin. If you keep everything simple and classic, you won’t look like a traffic cone.

DO know the ultimate accessory is a divine fragrance that lifts your spirits and gives you a spritz of glamour.

DON’T overspray. Just a dab’ll do.

1. Compliment him! Men need to feel “pretty” also. If he looks good let him know. We know how we feel when a man tells us we look gorgeous or beautiful so don’t forget to do the same for him.

2. Always keep up your appearance. When we finally snag our prince charming some women tend to “fall off” That is a huge mistake. I am not saying go to great lengths to look beautiful such as plastic surgery, but maintain your figure, dress up occasionally and leave the sweats in the closet. Do the same thing that you were doing when he was courting you. Just because you have him doesn’t mean its over…remember you have to keep him!

3. Have your own life! We some people get into relationships they cut their friends and family off. They want to spend every moment with the new boo, but ladies, he WANTS you to have your own life. He is not going to stop hanging out with his friends or watching Monday night football. Continue to participate in the activities that brought you pleasure before you met him. Your life shouldn’t stop for him.

4. Have a backbone! I don’t think there is a sign on anyone’s back that says “Welcome to My Home.” You are not a door mat so do not act like one. Stand up for yourself and to him. This may lead to an argument, but at least he knows that you stand for something and you are not going to say “Ok baby”

5. Men show their love in multiple ways. I know you are like “he can say it once in a while.” I totally agree!! But just because he didn’t say I love you when you hung up the phone last night does not mean that he does not possess those feelings. They show their love in many ways…you just have to know your partner well enough to know that he loves you. Did he give you the last Sticky Wing at BBQs? That’s love (lol kidding)

6. If he is less talkative or if he doesn’t seem excited and you ask “What’s wrong?” If he says “nothing’s wrong” chances are nothing is wrong. Sometimes they don’t want to talk. Don’t nag the man to death until he tells you something that you don’t want to hear. Let him be. If there is a problem he will come and talk to you…eventually lol…Just let him know ok, but if you need to talk I’m here and leave it alone. (This is extremely hard for me, but I’m working on it)

7. Don’t take certain things literally. If he says how was your day…he doesn’t want a play by play. To be honest I give it anyway lol! I was reluctant with posting this particular one because if you ask how my day was I am going to let you know how it was. I’m not going say oh it was good…unless I don’t want to talk to you, but usually I give a detailed summary(how much detail can you give in a summary right lol) of my days events. If you know me, you know I ALWAYS have a story…might I add they are always pretty funny! so that’s what you are going to get. If you don’t want the details don’t ask the question.

Ok once again I am no relationship expert, but when I find things on the internet that are interesting I always want to share with you. Once again, use your judgment. I don’t know the details of many of your relationships, but hopefully this will open up the lines of communication better.