Archives for September 2010

“You need to be aware of what others are doing, applaud their efforts, acknowledge their success, and encourage them in their pursuits. When we all help one another, everybody wins.” -Jim Stovall

It is part of human nature for us to wish that we succeed over other people. It is a part of human nature for us to feel that we must put ourselves in front of everyone else. It is a part of human nature for us to quickly dismiss the achievements of others, but it is also a part of human nature to change.

Often times we do not push forth to accomplish our goals because we lack support. A person can be extremely confident in all of their talents and abilities, but without a word of encouragement from someone else, it seems our efforts are in vain. Not only do we need to encourage ourselves, but we need to encourage others. Instead of constantly criticizing a person (criticism that is not constructive) try encouraging a person to go the extra mile, or to make a change.

It seems like when a person succeeds people become very bitter and instead of acknowledging the good, they focus on all the bad. We need to be supportive of those who want to make a change for the better and those that are not only out for themselves. I’m not saying encourage those who efforts show they are selfish and sly, but encourage those whose efforts you know you can benefit from. It’s not about recognition, its about getting a job done and making life a little more enjoyable.

So I say all of this to tell you to be the “salt and light” within your community, place of employment, home, etc. Be the person the encourage the positive efforts of those around you.

Director, promoter, and all around creative Vashtie Kola is making history. She is the first femaleto ever design a Jordan. Breaking into the fashion industry with her line Violette,Vashtie is definitely one to look out for. She is known for her laid back style and luxurious curls and hosting some of the best parties in the city. She has worked with Pharell and Lupe Fiasco and many others.

Vashtie collaborated with the Air Jordan Brand but developing a new lavender colorway for the Air Jordan II retros. Check out the pics.

 Gucci Spring/Summer 2011 collection can be summed up in one word…FABULOUS! They cater to all styles with this collection. If you are not in to neutrals, try going for brighter hues and jewel tones.

If you appreciate a softer color scheme, but pieces that still make a statmenet, try utilitarian inspired neutrals

If are still looking for more, you can never go wrong with the rocker chic look. Black is always in style and can be reinvented by mixing prints.

One of Fall’s must have items is the Cape. No not the cape that your favorite childhood superheroes wore. These capes modern and classy, yet edgy and chic. There are capes to suit all styles and they flatter most, if not all, figures. So Put away your coats for and put on a chic cape, bold scarf, your favorite bag and hit the streets. Here are a few options that won’t break the bank.

Iman is wearing one of her own capes from her Iman Global Chic Collection through HSN. The luxurious capes comes in 6 colors and retails for $89! Click here to purchase

The Olive Green cape is from Newport News. It was $74, but is now on sale for $29.99. Click here to purchase

The blue Military style cape is from ASOS.com. The ASOS military knitted cape comes in navy and khaki (which looks more like green) and retails for $68. Click here to purchase

KeKe Palmer stopped by the Essence office recently and I must say, she is such a lovely young lady. She has style and class. I admire her for not conforming to what other people are doing in the industry. She is not trying to portray an image and lifestyle that is not practical for the young girls that look up to her. Some people say “well behaved women rarely make history” or they remixed it to “well behaved b*****s rarely make history” but that’s just some out of control person trying to justify their actions. Keke shows that you can have class and be successful. Young girls should definitely look up to her.