“If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.” Barbara De Angelis
This Sunday is Valentine’s Day and some people may not have that “special someone” in their lives (at the moment). Instead of loathing or dreading this day that has been set aside to show love, do just that…show love. First and foremost, remember to love yourself. If you can’t love yourself, you are not going to know what it feels like to be loved or love another. You have to know your own self-worth and everyone is worthy of being loved.
One problem that the world is faced with today, hate. So many negative things happen because people hate themselves and they want others to feel their own pain and misery. It takes more energy to hate yourself or someone else than it does to love. Love is essential for anything in life. Love is essential for happiness. Whether it is loving your job, family, friends, or just life in general, love is definitely needed. So instead of hating yourself or finding what you feel is “wrong” make of list of what is right. We must realize that no one is perfect. We all have flaws and that is just one fact that needs to be accepted by all. Accept you for you who are and love yourself for that same reason.
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